Aer uses pressure wave technology to produce targeted and powerful clitoral stimulation. The toy has a smooth matte silicone exterior that’s easy to grip, and it’s made with body-safe materials. It’s fully waterproof, and it can be used before, during, or after sex to intensify pleasure or provide sexual relief. The Aer has a magnetic USB charger port at its base and three buttons on the top. The bottom button turns it on and off, while the upper two buttons cycle through five vibration patterns (one pulsing, one rattling).
The Aer is more expensive than our other favorite suction vibrator, the Womanizer Classic, but it offers more customization options for users. Its mouth is wider at its nozzle, making it gentler on the clitoral hood and easier to position on the labia; it also has more precise controls for the intensity of its air pulses. Its only downside is that it makes a loud rattling noise when turned on, unlike the quieter, more soothing sound of the Womanizer Classic toy.
If you’re looking for an affordable alternative to the Dame Aer, we recommend the Fun Factory Volta, which we love for its dual vibrating tips and simple operation. Its sexy shape and loop handle make it easy to hold in the hand or tuck under your chin, and its unique double-pronged design creates the sensation of a “second tongue.”
Another option that we like for nipple stimulation and breastfeeding support is Dame’s Fin finger vibrator, which can be used alone or with a partner and tucks snugly into the labia to feel like a natural part of the body. It’s also fully waterproof and features two pulsing and rattling patterns.